Back in KS

SO we are home and back in KS and to say that everything is ok is not the truth but it's "ok" relatively speaking. Hubby and I have had some real no holds bar fights since we have been home and it has been a real mess but we are both at an agreement that we can't do that shit anymore and that the kids really do need both of us in their lives. We are working on it and trying to get to know each other again and get back to where we were before this whole deployment from hell started.
I read some where that marriage counsalers advise that if your feeling a lose of love in a marriage to go through the actions and the feelings return. That showing the love and seeing how happy you can make your spouse can bring it all back and you can think on why your in this marriage in the first place, so that is what I am working on. I have a my fair share of issues in why we are here and so I am trying to work on those.
The kids are doing well. Our Son is learning to respect two parents again and to see his Dad as an authority figure and not just a buddy.
The baby is concerning me cause she is sleeping ALOT but there are no other symptoms so I am going to say she is ok. She has 9 teeth and is crawling everywhere now a days. She loves to explore and explores anything that she can get her little hands on.
I left my camera cord in PA so I can't upload any of the pictures that I have taken recently, but I will as soon as I get another cord. Sorry for the lack of pictures.
We have a ton of appointments on the military post on Friday starting at 0730 that I am NOT looking forward to, but gotta do what we gotta do.
More updates later...